Wedding Budget Calculator

Plan your wedding budget with a realistic breakdown — see exactly where every dollar should go.

Wedding Details

Your Wedding Budget Breakdown

Total Budget
$35,000
Per Guest
$292
Per Plate (est.)
$67
Contingency (5%)
$1,750
Venue & cateringmust-have
$13,300(40%)
Typical range: $11,638–$16,625
Reception venue rentalCeremony site (if separate)Food and beverages (per plate)Service staff and gratuityCake/dessert
Photography & videographymust-have
$3,990(12%)
Typical range: $2,660–$4,988
Wedding photographer (8–10 hours)Second shooterEngagement sessionVideographer (optional)Photo album/prints
Music & entertainmentimportant
$2,660(8%)
Typical range: $1,663–$3,990
DJ or live bandCeremony musicianSound equipmentPhoto booth (optional)Other entertainment
Flowers & decorimportant
$2,660(8%)
Typical range: $1,663–$3,990
Bridal bouquet & boutonnieresCeremony decorationsReception centerpiecesLighting/uplightingTable linens/rentals
Attire & beautymust-have
$2,660(8%)
Typical range: $1,663–$3,990
Wedding dress/suitAlterationsAccessories (veil, shoes, jewelry)Hair and makeupGroom's attire
Invitations & stationerynice-to-have
$998(3%)
Typical range: $665–$1,663
Save-the-datesInvitations + envelopesPrograms and menusThank-you cardsPostage
Officiant & ceremonymust-have
$665(2%)
Typical range: $333–$1,330
Officiant feeMarriage licenseCeremony accessories (unity candle, etc.)
Wedding planner / coordinatornice-to-have
$1,663(5%)
Typical range: $998–$2,660
Full planner or day-of coordinatorMonth-of coordinationPlanning software/apps
Favors & giftsnice-to-have
$998(3%)
Typical range: $665–$1,663
Guest favorsBridal party giftsParents' giftsWelcome bags (if destination)
Transportationimportant
$998(3%)
Typical range: $333–$1,663
Bride/groom transportationGuest shuttle (if needed)Getaway car
Ringsmust-have
$998(3%)
Typical range: $665–$1,663
Wedding bands (bride + groom)Ring box/holderRing insurance

Payment Timeline

WhenWhat to Pay%Amount
12–10 months beforeBook venue, photographer, caterer (deposits)25%$8,750
9–6 months beforeBook DJ/band, florist, officiant, planner15%$5,250
6–3 months beforeOrder invitations, attire, rings; finalize menu20%$7,000
3–1 months beforeFinal payments to vendors, tipping envelopes30%$10,500
Week of / day ofRemaining balances, tips, unexpected costs10%$3,500

Average Wedding Cost by Region

RegionAverage CostPer Guest (120 guests)
Northeast (NY, NJ, CT, MA)$47,000$392
Southeast (FL, GA, NC, SC)$31,000$258
Midwest (IL, OH, MI, MN)$29,000$242
Southwest (TX, AZ, NM, CO)$33,000$275
West (WA, OR, UT, MT)$36,000$300
Pacific (CA, HI)$49,000$408

Monthly Saving Plan

How much to save per month to reach your $35,000 budget:

6 months
$5,833
/month
9 months
$3,889
/month
12 months
$2,917
/month
18 months
$1,944
/month
24 months
$1,458
/month

Budget-Smart Wedding Tips

  • 1.Your $35,000 budget works out to about $292 per guest for 120 people.
  • 2.Peak season (June–October) costs 10–20% more. Consider a Friday or Sunday wedding to save 20–30% on venue costs even during peak months.
  • 3.The #1 way to reduce wedding costs: cut the guest list. Every 10 fewer guests saves $1,500–$3,000 on average (food, drinks, seating, favors).
  • 4.Always keep a 5–10% contingency fund. Unexpected costs (overtime fees, weather backup plans, last-minute alterations) come up in almost every wedding.

Average wedding costs from The Knot 2025 Real Weddings Study. Regional costs vary significantly by city and venue type. All figures are estimates for planning purposes.

How Much Does a Wedding Cost in 2026?

The average American wedding costs about $35,000 in 2026, but that number masks enormous variation. Weddings in the Northeast and Pacific regions average $47,000–$49,000, while Midwest and Southeast weddings average $29,000–$31,000. The single biggest factor is guest count — every additional guest adds $150–$400 depending on your venue and catering style. A 50-guest wedding at $250/head costs $12,500 for food and drink alone; a 200-guest wedding at the same rate is $50,000.

The second biggest factor is your region and venue choice. A Saturday evening wedding at a premium venue in Manhattan can cost 3–4 times more than the same quality wedding on a Friday afternoon at a barn venue in rural Pennsylvania.

Wedding Budget Breakdown — Where the Money Actually Goes

Category% of Budget$35K Budget$50K BudgetPriority
Venue & catering40%$13,300$19,000Must-have
Photography & video12%$3,990$5,700Must-have
Music & entertainment8%$2,660$3,800Important
Flowers & decor8%$2,660$3,800Important
Attire & beauty8%$2,660$3,800Must-have
Planner / coordinator5%$1,663$2,375Nice-to-have
Stationery3%$998$1,425Nice-to-have
Rings3%$998$1,425Must-have
Transportation3%$998$1,425Important
Favors & gifts3%$998$1,425Nice-to-have
Officiant & ceremony2%$665$950Must-have
Contingency (5%)5%$1,750$2,500Essential

Average Wedding Cost by Region — 2026

RegionAverage CostPer Guest (120 guests)Key Cost Driver
Northeast (NY, NJ, CT, MA)$47,000$392Venue and labor costs highest in U.S.
Pacific (CA, HI)$49,000$408Premium venue rates; limited availability
West (WA, OR, UT)$36,000$300Growing market; moderate pricing
Southwest (TX, AZ, CO)$33,000$275Lower venue costs offset by travel
Southeast (FL, GA, NC)$31,000$258Competitive vendor market
Midwest (IL, OH, MI)$29,000$242Lower cost of living = lower vendor rates

How to Save on Your Wedding (Without Sacrificing Quality)

StrategyPotential SavingsWhat You Give Up
Cut guest list by 30$4,500–$9,000Fewer attendees
Off-season (Dec–Mar)15–25% overallWeather limitations
Friday or Sunday20–30% on venueSome guests can't attend
Non-traditional venue$2,000–$8,000May need more rentals
DJ instead of live band$2,000–$5,000Different ambiance
In-season flowers only$500–$2,000Limited floral options
Skip the videographer$1,500–$4,000No professional video
Digital invitations$300–$800Less formal feel

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the number one way to reduce wedding costs?

Cut the guest list. This is unanimously the most impactful decision because so many costs scale per person: food, drinks, seating, table settings, favors, invitations, and sometimes even venue size. A wedding for 80 guests at $300/head costs $24,000 on catering alone; the same quality for 150 guests costs $45,000. If you're budget-constrained, every 10 fewer guests saves roughly $1,500–$3,000. Consider a smaller ceremony with an intimate dinner followed by a larger, less formal after-party.

How far in advance should I start paying vendors?

Most vendors require a deposit (25–50%) at booking, with the balance due 2–4 weeks before the wedding. Start booking your venue 12–18 months ahead (especially for peak season), photographer 10–12 months ahead, and other vendors 6–9 months ahead. By 3 months out, you should have all vendors booked and most deposits paid. Keep 10% of your budget liquid for final payments, tips, and last-minute expenses in the final week.

Is a wedding planner worth the money?

A full-service wedding planner typically costs 10–15% of your total budget ($3,500–$5,000+ for a $35K wedding). They're most valuable if you have a large budget, complex logistics, or limited time to plan. A more cost-effective option is a "day-of coordinator" ($800–$2,000) who manages the wedding day logistics while you handle the planning yourself. For budget weddings under $20K, a day-of coordinator is usually sufficient.

See also: Savings Goal Calculator and 50/30/20 Budget Calculator.